
If you’re waiting to be in a good mood where everything lines up perfectly in the day…this is what I have to say… wait no longer! Seize the day, clothe yourselves with power on high! Give the Lord a chance to change your heart and Watch What Happens!

“We will slide towards being rude if we wait for the right mood!”
This is what I am learning in my journey of contentment and gratefulness.

Take a couple of good deep breaths, drink a coffee or two and reboot your heart and mind! Stop looking at what you don’t have and focus on what you do have…yes what you do have!

Let’s say you have a runny nose and a cough, which my wife knows when I do because I get grouchy! Instead of focusing on the runny nose and cough(or other ailments or irritations or even expectations not met) I need to focus on and be grateful for what is working. I need to be grateful for clean water, I need to be grateful for food on the table and for healthy kids. I need to focus on what is amazing and not on what is bumping me into a bad way! It’s actually through trials that we grow and learn to lean more on God and not on ourselves. I actually can be grateful and joyful through trials and the hardest of times.

This year I celebrate 6 years and 6 months of recovery from cancer. We are taught to redeem the time and be grateful for everyday. My prayer for my family is that we learn to be grateful and to be content in whatever circumstance we are in. There are so many things that we can’t control. Charles Swindoll says there is one thing we can control and that is our attitude. We need to be grateful for the smallest things, like a smile from a friend or a joke that makes you belly laugh until you cry.

My family has a tradition at the dinner table to name 10 things we’re thankful for and after about number three or four we start realizing wow we really do have so much. The first three help clean up the manure of ungratefulness in our brains and hearts!
That’s why it’s so important when we are out and about and especially in our homes, to be filled not with ourselves or with bad attitudes, but rather filled with the Spirit of God.
Even the smallest appreciation for the functions in our body that do work, when naming just even some of them become a blessing.
I coach swimming at the YMCA and I see people swimming with one leg or some kind of ailment. Many times, I realize I’m the one with the handicap especially when I see them smiling and being grateful for what they do have.

Most of all, be grateful for being loved and being able to love.. only because He loved us first! Love can break through any Darkness and depression. Love can break through even bitterness and unforgiveness. Love, from above, will transform our overburdened earthly attitudes of ungratitude. Love from above makes us come alive and fills our hearts with soothing joy.

I am still how learning to be grateful or content everyday, but the Lord is helping me in my heart and mind to say more often… I shouldn’t be this happy, but I am.. because my life( my mind and heart) has been redeemed!
Have a blessed, grateful, joy filled day!
And when somebody asks you how you’re doing?.. you can say…I shouldn’t be this happy!!

Brad